Control your emotions

The sign of an intelligent people is their ability to control their emotions by the application of reason. In another words is you can choose how you gonna respond with any circumtances you are facing with. Doesn't you feel like an idiot as when you failed to control your bad emotion that also known as lose your temper. You will feel slightly regret but a bit release. You kinda have some mixed up feelings playing in your mind.

YES, we need some emotion to motivate us, but it needs to be the right emotion at the right time applied in the right way. The more emotional we become, the stupider we become. This is because emotions want us to react blindly and physically rather than to think or be objective and rational.

You can select your situation and how you gonna react with it. Let say if you know that you are most likely to become angry when in a rush then be there earlier and don't leave things for the last minute.

Change your thought.  You feel sad when you believe to have lost something, anger when you decide that an important goal is thwarted, and happy when you believe something good is coming your way. By changing your thoughts, you may not be able to change the situation but you can at least change the way you believe the situation is affecting you. In cognitive reappraisal, you replace the thoughts that lead to unhappiness with thoughts that lead instead to joy or at least contentment (aka be positive, be motivated. Don't just easily feel down and thus gonna ruin your whole day and you affecting other people too).

So please be smart be intelligent, control your heart your emotions and your reaction. Most of all be motivated and don't let your thought your behaviour your anger your disappointment ruin your day.

Adventurous Hatyai

(23rd - 28th May,2015)
We have been to Hatyai for about 5days without any travel agencies or guide. Just the two of us. Yes only TWO of us. Because we both like something more unplanning adventurous kinda trip. and because we both wild and crazy like. Hihi. Doesnt like to be fix into schedule, we prefer to have more relaxing vacation just for the two of us. And the important thing is you need the guts to explore the new world on your own.
We choose to went there by train. and guess what this is our last plan. (yes we know we nuts.) Sebabnya, at first we plan to have a getaway trip with the other but the thing when you planning the trip with a group of friend or something, macam-macam lah jadi. Cant this cant that, wont do this and that. Banyak kerenah. So lastly after been thru lotsa arguing, we plan just the two of us. We go to somewhere we never been before. We choose Thailand. And since I just finished my study on two weeks before, I am who book the tickets find the place to stay and all. My boyfriend just give me a command (because he is bossy like that).
So to start the journey we choose to feel more like backpackers kinda trip. We go by train (KTM).. and since it's a last minute plan, the only available coach is the economy seated class. The one that comes with bed already sold out. So yeah,we spend almost 14 hours in the train.(but now you can find the new speed train that called as ETS to Hatyai). That one seriously a madness. So exhausted yet so excited. Can you imagine that?
Hat Yai is a small city. There is not much culture or scenic views. What are you to do there? Shopping and eating. If you were to ask me personally, I think two to three days is good enough. We spent five days which was more than enough but I find that it is a good time for travelling at leisure. Not in a rush to finish doing things. We were able to have a cuppa in between and just enjoyed just being on holiday :) We've been to Klang Hae Floating Market (the variety of street food there were very unique and CHEAP for sure), Lee garden Plaza (to enjoy our ice cream date at Swensen & sky buffet dinner), Hatyai ASEAN Night Market, Central Festival (having our movie date there). We spend our five days there and thats it. Its great place to visit and you must try the street food and you definitely gonna miss Hatyai and wanna repeat the trip.wuhuuu..

 

                                                                                                                          

Hello my long-lost blog

I miss you,yess. I miss you. Been a lot to share here but first of all I would like to make an apology cause as I promised earlier on my previous entry I wanna share about my trip to Hatyai (sorrrrrrryyy,didnt mean toooo..) I'm really sorry I really still cant find any spare time to blogging now. But I really miss to blogging,seriously and I wish you see my face how serious I am now..Can someone spare me their time like couple hours please. Eheh.. Pegi kerja, balik kerja all by public tansport. Letih. seriously. Keluar gelap, balik gelap. What a life. And by the way, I just finished my #TokyoTrip part 1 with my boyfriend early of the year (but let me post an entry about my Hatyai trip frist). The vacation was so much fun and we gonna make it for the part 2. Cant wait thou. Hehehe. So yeah, finish with the introduction ( OMG,I know that was a serious goddamn long intro aye..phewww ), and as promised lets digging to my Hatyai trip. Yeayyyy...